
This adventure has truly been the experience of a lifetime. Exploring the world from London to the Galápagos - with more than a few stops in between - has challenged us, changed us, exhausted us, and enlightened us. We have seen amazing things and met some incredible people, and we were so very fortunate to have been able to create these cherished memories as a family. Prior to this trip, Kelly and I often spoke about how this experience may be the best thing we ever do as parents for our kids. At the conclusion of this world adventure, we are more confident in that belief than ever.
At the end of our journey we remain happily conflicted ... after more than two-hundred days of travel we are excited to go home, but we are also sad to stop travelling. It won't take long, I'm sure, for each of us to settle back into our pre-travelling lives. Still, the "Fenstons" will miss the sense of wonder and adventure demanded by a life "on the run". We often started our days with politics, and we often had our first daily adventure before we had lunch. Our classroom was twenty-one countries and our home was wherever we slept. We woke up excited, and went to bed tired. Seriously, does it get better than that?
The hardest part of ending this adventure isn't coming home, it is the irony that coming home means seeing less of each other. The trip didn't just bring us physically closer - although, there were times in Japan when we were packed in pretty tight - but it did bring us even closer as a family. While we annoyed each other at times, we encouraged each other more often. Each of us tried our best to make sure that each of us had the best time possible.
Ellie's boundless energy truly made this adventure a journey to remember. The love she shows her mom and dad every day is perhaps matched only by her love of animals. Every day since we left home, Ellie would loudly point out the cutest creature she could find, and then inquire if we could bring one home. One of my fondest memories of the trip is the time her and I took a long walk together in Normandy, France, and stumbled across two beautiful horses grazing in a field. Standing beside the old stone wall that surrounded this farmer's field, lifting Ellie up so she could see these two grazing beauties, and just chatting about nothing and everything with her is something I'll treasure forever. Eleanor has always possessed a confidence beyond her years, and an assertiveness beyond her size ... qualities she has shown in abundance on this adventure, and qualities we hope she will never abandon. It is with a profound sense of pride that Kelly and I will reflect upon Ellie's energy, courage, and enthusiasm during this amazing journey.
Wherever Quinn travels in the world, he always brings his optimism and his unabashed compassion for every living creature. On many occasions during this adventure, when dark clouds threatened our sunny days, Quinn would consistently find a silver lining. When entering apartments that were tiny and filthy, Quinn would remind us, "Hey, at least we have a bed." His view that the glass is always half full is always tempered with an understanding that not everyone has a glass to fill. Quinn is often hit hardest by those who are hardest hit, and the guilt he feels when we don't do enough for others will drive him to do more than most. This trip has highlighted how his appetite for social justice is matched only by his appetite for pasta. At times the man eats like a horse, and at other times he acts like you have put horse meat in front of him. His caring, his humour, his optimism, and his passionate plans and conversations about LEGO, have made this trip an unending joy for both Kelly and I.
Atticus started his intellectual journey to understand the world long before we planned to see it. His goal in life is simple enough: the acquisition, compartmentalization, and utilization of all human knowledge. On more than one occasion, I found him reading the CIA World Factbook, hoping to better understand places we had yet to visit. During this trip, Atticus frequently engaged both Kelly and me in 'casual conversations' that begin with questions like, "How was the First World War different from the Second?", "What is the complete history of tension in the Middle East?", and "What additional plagues have happened in Europe other than the Black Death of 1347?". Blessed - or maybe cursed - with Kelly's encyclopedic memory, Atticus is never satisfied with vague or imprecise conclusions ... and we hope he never is. At thirteen, he's between worlds, but seamlessly navigates both; he's as comfortable playing games with his brother and sister as he is chatting politics with his mom and dad. He is starting high school next fall, and Kelly and I are proud of the person he is and the person he is becoming.
On every voyage, there can be only one Captain, and that position clearly belongs to Kelly. While I have had the great pleasure of chronicling our adventures, Kelly skillfully took command in planning them. The long process of organizing this epic journey started years before our first flight to London, and none of us will ever be able to fully thank Kelly for her many nights researching, planning, and plotting to ensure we had the most memorable adventure of our lives. Like she does with every task, Kelly organized this trip with unparalleled logistical precision, grace, confidence, and educational relevance, all the while balancing the needs and the wishes of her family. She kept one eye on our pocketbook, and the other on a history book, ensuring that this trip broke the mould without entirely breaking the bank. Kelly's tireless efforts made this journey the experience of a lifetime, and she deserves more credit than my words can convey. Her legacy is our well-rounded and enlightened kids, who have come to see the world as a place to learn from and to explore, and not just a place to be feared.
Notwithstanding Kelly's extensive planning, luck also played a big role in the success of this trip. None of us got really sick, and none of us were injured. We were only delayed once and flew on over twenty-five flights. We encountered no crime, no criminals, and no problems that we couldn't navigate. We travelled for over two-hundred days, and we could count on one hand the number of times the weather didn't co-operate. Fortuitous, Kelly and I picked jobs in our 20s that made this family experience possible in our 40s. We are incredibly lucky people.
While FaceTime and e-mail have made the world a little smaller, nothing compares to a visit from home. Our times with Brian, Denise, and Moya (a.k.a. Grandpa, Grandma, and Nanny) were truly memorable, and something that each of us cherish forever. Similarly, meeting up with the Campbells in Ecuador afforded us a chance to reconnect with Markham, and to create some great memories with some truly wonderful people.
Kelly and I want to thank everyone we encountered on this adventure who helped make this trip so very memorable. Your thoughtful assistance - especially with regards to our kids - went a long way toward us reinforcing the notion that the world is filled with more kindness than cruelty, and that the number of good people in the world far surpasses the number of bad.
In addition, we want to thank everyone who has followed our adventures since the beginning. Your comments and emails were seen as a welcomed gifts from home, and I truly hope our adventures brought a smile to your day.
While the kids will be back in school next week, Kelly and I won't be back at work until September. In addition to not getting up early every day, Kelly and I are planning to write a book about this adventure. Now, you may be asking yourself, "I've read these blogs, why do I need to buy their book?" Well ... we're broke, and we could really use the cash. In reality, the blog has been largely my voice and the book will better reflect the voices of our family. In addition to untold stories, the book will may contain coarse language, adult themes, and nudity. Viewer discretion is advised.
In the years and months leading up to this trip, there were times where the excitement was unbearable. Sitting at our kitchen table, we would countdown the weeks, and eventually the days, until our first flight to London. When we first started travelling, we counted the number of days we had been gone, but as the months wore by, we sadly started counting how many days we had left on the trip. All good things must come to and end, and this adventure is no exception.
It was the experience of a lifetime, and an experience we'll be talking about for the rest of our lives.